Achieving Full Life – Three Essential Elements

ONE OF MY FAVORITE AUTHORS, Os Guinness, says in his book Time of truth[1]

“To have a fulfilling life, three essential elements are required: a clear sense of personal identity, a deep sense of faith and meaning, and a strong sense of purpose and mission.”[2]

If there is one thing we all want, it is a full life. Let’s take a trip and find out what this means.

Guinness uses the story of Primo Levi,[3] a survivor of Auschwitz, to illustrate the importance of the three aspects of this hypothesis towards a full life. Levi was driven to preach the lessons of the Nazi regime so that it would never happen again, giving millions a sense of purpose from the tragedy and ensuring that the human cost and legacy were never forgotten. However, the semblance of inner strength was transient for Levi, who ultimately met the same tragic end in his life as countless of his colleagues: he committed suicide.

Only a few weeks before his death he had written in a diary that he had no answer to the riddles of life. A life that offered so much hope and purpose to so many crippled by the crimes of World War II was suddenly scuttled, utterly. Even though he killed himself, the memory of him and what he stood for should live on.

Despite this, Guinness uses Levi’s story to highlight the critical weakness in his modus operandi. He simply “lacked sense of faith and meaning with which to interpret and manage their harrowing experience.[4] (Italics are added for emphasis.) Without a solid blueprint to base his life on, his “force” became unsustainable.

He highlights that while one may have two of the three qualities sewn together, if the one that is missing is a true weakness, it will inevitably stand in the way of achieving a full life. And so it is for people without a strong sense of spirituality and good faith (because there are so many “bad” beliefs out there). Bad faith could be described as a theorem that lacks the fundamental plausibility of truth. So it was for Levi. A “dark combination of Auschwitz and atheism” finally confused him.[5] He had no way of understanding the most incredible and horrible life experiences he had witnessed in terms he could understand, and therefore live with. A sense of faith might have given him that.

Many recognize the need to live by the truth, but some of the most intelligent ironically fall for a lie; feeling they have to create the truth and not just to find out that. Guinness calls us to consider Nietzsche, Camus, Sinatra, and ultimately Levi.[6]-all of whom, being brilliant men, could not to accept basic spiritual truth. Without truth there is no strength.

However, there are the other two to consider: personal identity and purpose and meaning. Imagine having a deep sense of faith and meaning, yet having only a vague sense of self or an insufficient sense of purpose in life. We need to focus on all three if we truly want happiness, satisfaction, and fulfillment.

Establishing and becoming comfortable with our personal identity is a process that requires courage and honesty. There is no other way. Likewise, finding a sense of purpose and meaning requires a lot of soul searching. Today, it can be more of a case of needing to focus on one thing and one thing only, as we can get caught up in a multitude of spotlights. We must keep searching until we feel positively and sustainably caught up in the mission that captures our imagination. There is at least one for each person.

I am suggesting the importance of self-reflection and the commitment to take on the next activity.

Activity:

Clear sense of personal identity.

Deep sense of faith and meaning.

Strong sense of purpose and mission.

© Steve J. Wickham, 2008. All rights reserved worldwide.

[1] Guinness, Os. (2000) Crunch Time: Living Free in a World of Lies, Exaggerations, and Twists (Baker Book House Company, Grand Rapids, Michigan) 128 pages. This book is full of truths and attacks on postmodernism. Another brilliant offering from Guinness is “The Call”, Finding and fulfilling the central purpose of your life (2003) by Word Publishing Group, Nashville, TN.

[2] Guinness, Ibid., p. 71.

[3] More general information is freely available, for example: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Primo_Levi

[4] Guinness, Ibid., p. 72.

[5] Guinness, Ibid., p. 72.

[6] Guinness, Ibid., p. 74.