Interpretation of the signs and gestures of attraction of the body language of the opposite sex

Did you know that the body language of men and women will change dramatically when they are in the presence of the opposite sex? For example, a man will automatically straighten his body, stand a little higher, and avoid all those common slouching or slouching postures.

When a man is in the company of a woman he is interested in, he will do his best to appear more dominant by pulling on his stomach and expanding his chest.

Let’s just casually say that the woman you like here shares the same interest and is falling in love with this man, she will also automatically show herself submissive with gestures like turning and exposing her wrists, tilting her head a little and touching her hair.

The interesting thing is that the gestures of this man and this woman were unconsciously delivered in an automatic response mode. Well, of course, there are those intentional, coordinated flirting and attracting gestures that were made consciously.

What kind of attractive gestures do men use?

Men basically don’t have a large inventory of attraction and flirting gestures compared to women. When a man is interested in a woman, he will only focus his gestures to show his masculinity and the image of macho-man.

His gestures typically start with patting his hair in place, smoothing and straightening his clothes, adjusting his tie if he’s wearing one, and often pushing his chin forward. At the same time, you will extend your chest, straighten your back, and draw your stomach as mentioned above.

A man will normally show his masculinity and dominance by tucking his thumbs into his belt and pointing them at his crotch. In fact, this is a very common sight of men using gestures to emphasize their manhood.

What kind of attractive gestures do women use?

On the contrary, when a woman is interested in a guy, she throws tons of signals and signals to notify him of her feelings. Unfortunately, the downside here is that many men are totally oblivious to these signs and signals. To make matters worse, women sometimes unwittingly send mixed signals when they try to manipulate men into showing their feelings for her. Very often this will end with men being confused and resulting in them avoiding her and not approaching her.

In a room, when a woman meets the man she is attracted to, she usually stares at him until he catches her attention and thus forms the first eye contact. He will then hold this eye contact for two to three seconds before looking away. Later, she will show other gestures to express her interest in this particular boy.

One of the gestures most used by a woman around a man who attracts her is the gesture of moving her hair. What happens here is that the woman will push her hair out of her face or over her shoulder in a sensual way. Surprisingly, this gesture is also performed by many women with short hair.

When a woman slowly and suggestively strokes her neck or thigh, she is hinting to the man that he, too, could touch her in this way if he can captivate and hypnotize her to her delight. This is the self-caressing gesture that women frequently use.

Another gesture to keep in mind is that of the dropped wrist. This gesture is often used for maximum effect when stroking a cylindrical object. Women like to use this gesture to make a man feel like he can have full control over her. Many men perceive this drooping wrist gesture as a sign of submission.

A similar seductive gesture used by women to attract a man will be the gesture of stripping the neck. This is another gesture of submission seen by men in the same way as the drooping wrist gesture. As suggested here, the woman will strip the man’s neck by tilting her head to the side of his shoulder.

Are you already seeing someone else?

When a person sees someone they are interested in, most of the time the reason they do not approach that person for a chat is the thought that maybe this particular person is not single and is already dating someone else. Therefore, the notion arises that maybe there is someone else out there, or that they may arrive soon.

Imagine this scenario in a bar, a beautiful lady is attracted to this charming and handsome boy within a group of people who are on the other side of the room. She then uses the technique of staring to establish eye contact, indicating that she is interested in him.

The boy seemed a bit oblivious to her signals, or maybe he’s just a bit shy. So the lady decides that maybe she should go there and give this shy boy a chance to strike up a conversation with her. When he was about to move, a lovely lady joined the group and is now standing next to the lovely boy. Apparently, this lovely lady also seems to be from the same group, and she seems to be quite close to that guy.

Now the question “Are they a couple?” appears in the mind of this beautiful lady. She is considering whether she should stay where she is, or keep going there. Very often and most likely, just to play it safe, the decision will be to stay where you are to avoid any awkward or embarrassing situations.

My own intimate zone

It is not only natural, but also a proven scientific fact that the closer two people sit, stand, or lie down next to each other is very similar to how close and emotionally intimate they are to each other.

Each and every person has their own intimate zone. The size of this zone can vary somewhat from person to person, but only at a minimal rate. It begins with the body itself, extending up to a foot and a half / half meter from it. For that person, everything within this intimate zone “belongs to him”, or is considered as “his”.

Parents, siblings, spouses, lovers, children, close relatives, and very close friends will normally be within 18 inches / 50 centimeters of each other. Like them, only those who are considered emotionally close to us can cross this spatial barrier and enter the intimate zone. Any uninvited stranger entering this area will be viewed as an act of intimidation and hostility, prompting the person to move away from the intruder immediately.

This is perhaps the main reason people will stay with the same doctor or dentist for years, even traveling miles to get there, rather than undergoing the stress of allowing a stranger to enter their intimate area.

High touch properties

Usually people touch things or lean on something that they feel is theirs. They do it in many different ways with their fingers, arms, feet, and even the buttocks. For example, a person sometimes leans against walls with his back and shoulder, or leans against tables with his buttocks when in his own home. However, you will not be able to witness these behaviors if they are in the homes of people you are not familiar with.

The same rules apply here with couples holding hands, brushing their arms as they walk, or grooming and adjusting each other’s clothes. One of the most common signs that you will always notice everywhere will be the way women demonstrate ownership to their man by placing the palm of their hand on his chest. The same type of display can also be seen here when a man places his hand on his partner’s waist or back.

Beauty, they say, is in the eye of the beholder

There is a big difference between what is attractive to men and women, which is believed to have originated from our prehistoric ancestors of hunters (men) and food gatherers (women).

Women in general tend to be attracted to men who are powerful, assertive, and independent, qualities that suggest that the person is a capable provider and reliable father to their children. On the other hand, what men find attractive in women is generally based more on their visually appealing exterior.

In both cases, as men or women, by emphasizing these qualities, we would always hope to make ourselves more attractive (beauty or personality) to the opposite sex and have a wider selection of potential partners to choose from.

Although body language never shows interest in others, we must use it to manipulate others. Truly attractive people are those who see themselves as they really are and always believe in themselves.