Am I just a newbie or is he really interested in me?

Are you dating a guy and you don’t know what he’s thinking? Wondering what he wants from your relationship? Are you worried that he will see you as an adventure when you are interested in something more serious? Believe it or not, there are a few tricks to telling what you have in mind, even if you don’t make it obvious.

The first thing to realize is that men rarely openly say what they are thinking. Heck, half the time they don’t even know how they really feel, much less how to express it! Don’t let the little platitudes fool you into thinking that everything is fine. Likewise, don’t worry about ragged sarcastic comments as much as you probably will. Her mood could be affecting her response to you and the little things don’t always imply what’s really going on in her head.

Instead of listening to the things he says directly, keep a close eye on the way he behaves. Watch his gestures when you speak to him and his body language when the two of you are close to each other. Does he lean in and make eye contact when the two of you have a conversation or does his eyes roam the room? You can measure a man’s interest based on the way he behaves when he talks to you.

Beyond direct interaction with him, you can see the way he treats you in his daily life. Does he regularly put you on the back burner to hang out with his friends? Does he only make time for you when he has nothing else to do? Do you always put work ahead of you? If you answer yes to any of these questions, it is very likely that he is not ready for a serious relationship and that he is only interested in you casually.

One last, but very important way to find out if he’s taking you seriously as a potential romantic partner is to look at his social and family life, and where you fit in. Do you know his friends? Have you spent any time with your family? Has he spent any time with yours? If you are not a part of his life in the big picture, you probably won’t become one anytime soon. Keep your head straight and don’t invest too much in this type of man.

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