Dating success: how will you handle it when he walks away?

Can you handle the ups and downs of dating? If you want to be successful in dating, it’s a good idea to know what kinds of challenges you’re likely to face. Dating is rarely easy and one of the things that happens is that men almost always pull away during periods of uncertainty in dating and relationships. If you’re prepared for this and know how to handle it, then you’re halfway to dating success. Find out why it happens and why it is so important to be able to manage this type of response.

In general, dating goes well as long as both of you are attracted to each other and don’t feel any pressure. The turning point usually comes when one partner realizes that the other has crossed the line into the relationship before they were ready. Very often it is the woman who shows signs of wanting a relationship first, as women tend to get attached early on. She may try to talk to him about the future or start complaining when he is not giving her the relationship she hopes for.

If he’s not ready to hear any of this, the relationship that started out as fun and carefree begins to feel like pressure and work. He withdraws to avoid giving the impression that he is engaged or to try to find out what is going on. He also needs space to know how he feels about you. This withdrawal is a natural male response to awkwardness or problem solving, so you better be prepared for it, as it’s likely to happen to you at some point, no matter how much chemistry you have between you.

If you can now stay calm and wait patiently, then chances are you can weather the storm, but many women don’t. The problem is that her disappearance can bring up all of their relationship’s fears of being hurt or her feminine tendency to feel abandoned. If he had felt even a little insecure before this, then it could feel like the beginning of a major disaster. You feel that things are not so close and you wonder if you are losing it.

Since it’s a natural response for a woman to want to talk about things, you will, of course, want to discuss it to work it out. As a woman, that’s your natural way of solving problems and feeling close again, and that’s what you want more than anything. However, you won’t appreciate this if you don’t feel comfortable and need some space to tidy up her head.

You see, words don’t have the same effect on men as they do on women. If you start talking to him when he needs to think, he will want to get away from you. You better let it go. If you start holding on to a relationship where you are more attached than him, you have a very good chance of losing him.

Often a woman will chase after a man to find out where he is and why he doesn’t get in touch and meet all her needs. She gets mad at him and constantly calls and texts to try to fix it. Often, she just can’t be patient enough to wait for him to return in her own time. He begins to think that she is desperate or crazy. If you do this, you will kill the attraction in your relationship.

So what should you do when you feel yourself drifting away? The only thing you can do if you want to keep it up is stay calm and hold back. Show no signs of despair or negativity. Let it go and wait to see what it does. When you get on with your own life and don’t run after him, you’re likely to turn the tables, especially if he starts to wonder why you stopped contacting him. When you realize that pulling away from him is just the natural male withdrawal response, you can learn to deal with it. Then you can go from dating to a successful relationship.