Dealing with jealousy in the swinger lifestyle

Jealousy is part of life. It comes and goes and affects people in different ways. Some people don’t get jealous at all, while others are very jealous all the time. For most of us, we fall somewhere in the middle of that, and sometimes jealousy gets the best of us. And this is perfectly natural.

Jealousy probably shows up more in the personal relationships we have with others. In most cases, it has to do with our partners. We value them more and if we do not receive enough attention from them, it affects us negatively.

Jeally is an important consideration for couples who are interested in the swinger lifestyle. One of the prerequisites for entering the swinger lifestyle is trusting your partner. Without trust, you will have a hard time opening up and enjoying all that the lifestyle has to offer.

You have to accept the fact that your partner is attracted to other people, even if you are not a swinger. This is just part of life. There are tons of attractive people in the world and it’s perfectly natural for your partner to think that everyone else is attractive.

There is no doubt that sex is a delicate and sensitive topic, even for people who are swingers. If you find your partner getting angry or jealous of you talking about having sex with other partners, then you need to seriously reconsider your lifestyle.

No one wants a jealous partner in the swingers club. If you or your partner are jealous, you are likely to have a bad night. And you’ll probably ruin the night for the other couples you interact with too. Be courteous and make sure the swing is right for you.

Jealousy can and will ruin your relationship. This is why you must be absolutely sure that both you and your partner trust each other. Instead of jumping off the bottom, start slow. Test the waters and start with harmless flirtations and work your way up to a full exchange. Monitor your comfort level every time you take the next step.

Honesty is the key to treat jealously. Swapping partners must be completely honest with each other at all times. If you feel jealous or uncomfortable about something at any time, you need to talk about it with your partner. Dealing with things after the fact will only cause more problems.

Jealousy can appear at any time. It can happen:

• When couples talk to other couples
• When you or your partner flirt with another person
• When you or your partner pay a lot of attention to another person
• When you or your partner dance or kiss another person
• When you or your partner engage in sexual acts with another person

If jealousy occurs in any of these cases, you need to address it immediately. Put the swing on hold until you can work out your issues with your partner. Remember, you are doing this as a couple and not as individuals. Be honest and openly communicate your feelings and you will have a much more enriching experience in the swingers club.