Get Your Man To Propose To You Fast – Stop The Endless Waiting Game

Are you looking for your man to propose to you, sooner rather than later? I am amazed at how many people are locked into a relationship where the man shows no signs of making a solid commitment. It’s time to stop the madness and get your man to propose fast.

How not to get your man to propose fast

Let me ask you a quick question: what have you tried so far to get your boyfriend’s attention, so that he really sees why he needs to go ahead and commit to you?

Typically, I hear responses range from refraining from physical activity, to ignoring him to make him see “what he’s missing.”

I want to share with you that this approach, although very common, does not work. How do I know it doesn’t work? I am a man and I refused to get engaged and finally get married for over 10 years. My girlfriend tried all the common methods on me, and all they did was push me further away, not closer!

Why men stay away more when you “punish” them

Frankly, it all comes down to a man’s pride and decision-making, especially one who’s in no hurry to get engaged or married. Most of these men will put their guard up and become very defensive when you try to take control of the situation.

In these cases, your boyfriend is more likely to start spending more time with his friends than with you, as a way of punishing you. In as little as a week or two, this can become an ingrained habit, and suddenly your relationship could be in trouble. All because the man’s pride will get in the way of his mind in most cases.

Here are some other things to avoid doing that will fall on a man’s pride and slow down any decision process:

1. The Ultimatum: Another common tactic is to set a deadline and say “if we’re not engaged by this date, I’m out.” All you’ve done is give your man an easy out.
2. Guilt Pressure: Guilt pressure is when you start giving hints about how “everyone else” is married or engaged, and you pressure your man to conform to others. This will only drive him away.
3. Emotional pressure: Some women feel that if they break down and cry long enough in front of their man, he will break down. The reality is that we see this as a huge sign of weakness, and we will only take advantage of it in the long term.

So what can you do that will help you get engaged, get your ring, and get on with your life together? You have to let your boyfriend make the decision completely on his own!

Now, there are ways to really speed up your man to make that decision, and none of them involve cutting him off, putting pressure on him, or setting an ultimatum.

The big key to getting your man to propose to you

Here’s the big key: start acting like a man! Men often think that they are the best people in the world, and what could be more attractive to a man than a woman, who he already likes because he is in a relationship with her, who acts like him! Immerse yourself in their interests. Focus on your hobbies for a while. Begin to understand what motivates you, imitate it, and you’ll be on your way.