How a straight man can have sex more often

When it comes to sex, adults often do not take into account the very different experiences that we have. We can also have very different responses to the same experience due to our different personalities. It is also not recognized that the frequencies with which a woman is expected to be willing to have sex are related to her partner’s sex drive and not her own.

Some men like to engage in foreplay. This male behavior focuses on prolonging male arousal. Educated men seek a deeper emotional connection with a lover in their sex life. A man who wants a committed partner puts more pressure on a woman because he expects a response of some kind or a performance. This makes sex more onerous for a woman, making her less willing to spend more time having sex.

One of the main justifications that men have for insisting on regular sex with their wives is their greater purchasing power. Many women who have children feel compelled to keep a man happy while he pays the bills. This is the reason why men do not encourage women in the workplace. The greater economic independence of women is not in the interests of men. This is evidence that men know they are asking for something that women don’t always want to give.

Nature never intended men to be monogamous. In all societies, men’s greater penchant for promiscuity is accepted as a natural and defining characteristic of male sexuality. If a woman provides sex to a man because she knows that if she doesn’t, he will look for another woman. So women’s need for male support has contributed to the high sex drive many men have today. Men are attracted to women regardless of anyone’s marital status. Most men try to be faithful because they appreciate that sexual loyalty is important to women’s emotional need to feel loved and appreciated.

It would be nice if women had sex for love, but it doesn’t always work that way. Sex becomes a chore that women feel compelled to do to keep the family together. Many women today wait for their children to grow up before divorcing. Men need to understand what a huge investment sex is for a woman at the cost of her own emotional happiness.

If a man doesn’t get the sex he wants, then he has to change the balance of power. A man needs to back off for a while (for a month or two) and give his partner time to lose his interest in her. He has to stop bothering for sex. He should wait until she wants him to notice her. A couple should ban sexual intercourse and focus on other forms of mutual pleasure. Intercourse is good for two things: making babies and facilitating male orgasm. Intercourse should be used towards the end of lovemaking.

Sex happens much more easily in the early stages of a relationship because being affectionate with each other provides the most natural introduction to sex. First, a woman offers affectionate interaction by touching or kissing her lover. Her lover communicates her desire by kissing her back passionately, touching the woman with greater emphasis on her erogenous zones and indicating her own arousal by pressing her groin against her body.

A man thinks of sex as a conquest because most women don’t find it easy to get into bed. Once a man has been accepted by a woman, he trusts her to be more compliant than other women. Otherwise, he would just go somewhere else. Instinctively, a man knows that when a woman is emotionally attached to him, she is more likely to be willing to have sex than an unknown woman.

A woman offers sex to a man to be loved. She withholds sex when she is angry with him in part to punish him, but also because sex is abhorrent to a woman when she is angry with a lover. Men never behave like this because, for them, sex is a commodity or a biological need to relieve sexual tension. On some level, sex can be purely functional for men, like relieving themselves. For women, sex depends much more on emotional factors.

To be fair, women are guilty too because they don’t feel safe or comfortable saying to their partner, “Hey, sex has to be about what I want. And tonight is going to be a night where it’s all about sex.” from me; which means a full body massage and no sex. Next time we’ll focus on your fun.” (Trina Read 2014)