How to attract girls effortlessly

When guys are looking to attract girls, they often get the same advice each and every time. They are told to ‘be confident’ and ‘just be themselves’. Well this is completely useless because you probably already know. What they don’t know is how to be confident and how to be themselves.

Step 1 – Body language

The key to being confident is feeling GOOD. Have you ever felt nervous and tense and noticed that your body language changed completely? You will most likely cross your arms or hands, lean forward, and take up less space (standing with your feet together). When women see this, they automatically lose their attraction to you.

Now imagine a time when you felt totally comfortable and relaxed. Chances are, your body language is very relaxed and loose. If he was sitting, he was probably leaning back with his arms and legs extended. Or maybe, if you were in a club, you stood in a confident stance, taking up a lot of space (wider standing stance) and possibly even leaned against a wall holding your drink down (not up by your shoulder). Well, when women see this, they automatically assume that you are a cool, confident, and great value guy. All the qualities that attract them very much as well.

Step 2 – Vocal projection

Girls are extremely attracted to Alpha Guys. Think of all the types of “leaders” you know. The guys everyone else follows. The guy who seems to make all the decisions. What do all these guys have in common? They have a strong and powerful voice. When they speak, everyone listens. So the next step in attracting girls is to have a strong and powerful voice. This is conveyed to you by a leader and you are used to people respecting you and listening to you. So from now on I want you to speak louder. Don’t think about talking to people. Think about speaking THROUGH people. If people tell you that you speak too loud, take it as a compliment and continue speaking out loud.

Step 3 – Funny and funny attitude

If you have implemented the first 2 steps in your life, you should notice a big difference. You should see that girls pay more attention to you. So the next step in increasing your attraction to girls is through your personality. Most guys act totally different when it comes to “normal looking girls” than they do to “pretty girls.” This is why most guys complain that the only girls they like are the girls they are not attracted to. This is also the reason why beautiful girls only wish that guys could act normal and be themselves around them. But instead, they act totally differently.

To attract a girl you have to remove her from the pedestal you put her on. She is just a girl and girls abound in this world. If you can act playful, arrogant, and fun with a beautiful girl, her attraction to you will skyrocket.

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