How to get your wife back while going through the separation process? These tips will help

You feel that just because your wife has moved away and wants to separate, your marriage is over. But much can be done to win the wife back from her during this period of separation to avoid divorce. This is what you need to do to get your wife back during your separation from her.

leave her alone
Don’t try to harass your wife every day. The more you call, the more determined she will get. This is the time you should give her to reflect a little and she can accept the decision that she is about to make. Spending some time alone can make her see that her marriage definitely deserves another chance.

don’t bother her anymore
Since she’s already upset, there’s no need to add to your list of existing upset items. Calling her and trying to connect with her with nothing better than to say “sorry” is a bad idea. In her place, reflect and find out why she is making this move.

A rock solid apology is what you need
Once you can understand their distress, it’s time for you to apologize. Make the apology honest, serious, and rock solid. Let her feel that you care about what she thinks and feels. Make her see that you’ve thought about making her feel good and she’ll begin to soften.

make me talk to you
Little by little he begins to call her. Your agenda should be to get him to talk to you a little more each day. As she begins to talk to you every day, her anger will begin to subside and she will begin to feel that sense of security with you. Tread very carefully at this stage though, as one wrong move can land you at the bottom of the ladder.

understand their point of view
Make an honest effort to understand their point of view. Remember that it is not imperative that you get everything she says. The idea is to make her feel that you really care about her and that you ‘want’ to know how and what she feels. If she doesn’t understand something, ask her to explain it clearly.

take the initiative
Tell him that you want to give your marriage another chance and that you are willing to do anything for him to see it. Offer to make an appointment with a marriage counselor and start going to sessions. She will join you once she sees you taking the lead.

Get ready to work hard
Work hard on the counselors’ directives and also be very patient with your wife. Make her see that she can trust you and soon you will have her back with you.