I made a mistake and left my boyfriend. How do I get it back?

We all make mistakes and this is normal. You probably made the mistakes of leaving your boyfriend and you really regret your decision. Now, he worries if he still has a chance to get it back.

Well, freight no! Yes, this may be a big mistake on your part, but mistakes can always be saved. The fact is that couples get back together all the time. It doesn’t matter who started the breakup. Getting back together is possible as long as you do the right thing and avoid the wrong.

First, you need to understand that everyone’s situation is slightly unique. So there really are no hard and fast rules, dictating exactly what you should do and what you shouldn’t do to get your ex boyfriend back.

However, there are certain rules that are quite applicable in many different types of situations. The following tips work quite well for many situations.

1) Give him some time and space.

Breakup is always devastating, especially for the one being abandoned. Your boyfriend is likely to be pretty upset, especially for the first few days or even the first few weeks. So it’s probably a good idea to give it some time and space. Do not contact him for at least the first few days. In fact, some relationship experts recommend not contacting your ex for a month right after the breakup. Of course, this will depend on his situation.

2) Test him out

After the cool down period, it’s probably time to contact you again. Now is a good time to test if he still has any desire to be with you again. There are many things you can do to find out if he still has feelings for you. Keep in mind that the fact that he still has feelings for you doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants to be with you again.

Ultimately, you are the one who left him and men are usually proud creatures. However, as long as he still has feelings for you, you can usually win him back as long as you follow the right steps.

So how to test it?

Well, use your observation.

a) How does he talk to you?

b) What is he talking about?

c) How does he look at you?

d) How does he respond to your accidental touches?