Qualities of a good husband

When I was in college, many groups would often invite me to camps to talk about different relationship topics. During one of my presentations, a beautiful young woman asked me one of the questions most loved by many women around the world. Her question to me was, “What makes a good husband for a man?” After her question, I knew that she had a good and convincing answer for that dear sweet lady (Hey! A little confession: I really admired that lady and was actually impressed by her beauty).

It suddenly occurred to me that I should first listen to what his colleagues (it was an all-girls show and my assistant and I were the only guys in the auditorium) before giving them what I thought they were and are the qualities of a good husband! My God! I had the scare of the life that night! I just couldn’t believe what these campus girls were looking for in their ideal men. One short lady expressed, “My ideal man is a guy who can rock me all night in bed.” What! I exclaimed in surprise. An usher at the show said, “If you’re not a well-rounded guy, you’ll never be able to be my man.” Then another lady spontaneously said, “so Theo (referring to me) would never qualify!” The ladies went wild as they laughed at their friend’s teasing comments. “Dear (referring to the former lady), why a well built man and not a guy with my physique.” Excited, the ladies were again.

“Well, a muscular man can easily carry me in his arms to the car when I’m pregnant and, of course, show me ‘what’s up’ at night,” the lady replied. There were other answers and comments. Some were very helpful to me and good to take notes on (which I signaled to my assistant to write them down for me), but some, oh my! where just off target. One of the biggest priorities for girls has to do with sex, sex, sex. But what should be expected from these young women whose sexual hormones are of high entropy in their systems?

I firmly believe that no matter what ladies look for in a man as a good husband, there are certain qualities that they should always look for. These qualities are the determining factors that differentiate good husbands from bad ones. I am a young man and ladies believe me, men are not perfect beings and we are a kind of “beast” in each man. Forgive us for our shortcomings but insist on seeing in us a high percentage of the following good qualities. Please always remember that there is no man who is perfect, not even one! Ladies, if you happen to see one, hmm! he is a serious suitor.

So who is then a good husband? What makes a man a good husband? I firmly believe that a good husband is a “house-band”, that is, like any band, for example, a music band, he is capable of bringing the members of the nucleus (himself, his wife and children, as well as any another person living with them) together and becoming one, with each member living happily and joyfully. No matter what a man’s beliefs, culture, temperament, appearance or upbringing, women should look for these qualities in their men. Let me share the qualities with you now!

1. A good husband must be a good caretaker.

Well! Now the question is, “A guardian of what?” I have met so many children, for example, who do not love being at home, especially if their parents are around. Most of these kids don’t like it and want to be home because their parents are like “repellents”, always driving them away from home with their hateful actions. So when I say a good husband (house band) is a good caretaker, I mean that he can happily keep his kids and wife at home, and they are also happy to be around their husband and dad. In addition, he must have the ability to maintain the trust of his family, create and maintain a good name for the family, keep the family together always, and most importantly, maintain the dignity of the woman he has married. , making her very special as compared to any other woman on planet earth.

2. A good husband gives good satisfaction.

A true husband should strive to make his family members happy by satisfying them with their needs. He’ll see, you don’t necessarily have to be incredibly wealthy to satisfy his family. The fact that they see you always doing your best for them makes them love you more. But I wouldn’t deny the fact that there are some unreasonable wives who never appreciate what their husbands do for them. However, if you call yourself a husband, you should be able to satisfy your wife, to a greater extent, sexually, financially, emotionally, socially, and psychologically. A good husband supplies the need of his children. Let his wife and children say: “We have a good father and we never lack.”

3. A good husband is a good director of the home.

If you are a husband and you cannot control or be in charge of your home, then I wonder if you are any good. A good husband manages his home well. You should gladly submit to yourself and your children should also gladly obey you. Take your family to a life if you call yourself a good husband.

4. A good husband gives good guidance. A good husband can help advise his family members on how to do something challenging and how to deal with problems related to the things they do or their personal relationships. He shows them the right path in life. Are you a good husband if your wife and children are struggling in life?

5. A good husband ensures that there is always peace in the home.

6. A good husband helps maximize the potential of his wife and children. He is not selfish. He goes to the top with them.

7. A good husband is trustworthy. He does not live a double life. He is a “constant” man and a “variable”.

8. A good husband protects his family. Protect the family against any attack or criticism.

9. He is a good companion. He spends a lot of quality time with his family.

10. It is a perfect helper. He does not leave all the housework to his wife. He helps at home.

11. Gives perfect comfort. He comforts his wife and children when they feel sad or worried.

12. He is a good provider.

13. A good husband gives his family joy and much happiness.

14. Gives good security. It makes your family develop a feeling of confidence and certainty in your abilities.

15. He is compassionate.

16. He gives his children perfect destinations.