Your boyfriend wants some time apart, what should you do?

So your boyfriend wants to be apart? Whenever a woman hears this, she probably thinks of one of two things. She may decide to find the silver lining and convince herself that he needs her space because he is scared by how deeply he loves her. Other women see it for what it is. They know that when a man says he needs a separate time, it is his way of breaking up. If it’s your boyfriend who says these things and you’re still crazy about him, there are things you need to do right now to make sure you don’t lose him forever.

When your boyfriend wants to spend time apart, what is your initial reaction? If you love him, you are obliged to beg him and beg him not to go away. For a distraught woman, this seems like a perfectly logical approach. After all, we would be thrilled if our boyfriends acted this way if we decided to break up with them. The truth is, men don’t find this kind of emotional outburst attractive in the least. In fact, it makes them feel very uncomfortable. They will do everything in their power to get away from you as quickly as possible. This is not an approach you want to take.

The best thing a woman can do if her boyfriend wants to be apart is to agree with him. Men never see this coming. It’s one of the reasons why some men take months or even years to end a relationship. They don’t want to deal with the dramatic aftermath of the split. If you do the exact opposite of what he expects, you are taking all control away from him and giving it to yourself. With that act you have completely changed the dynamics of the breakup. He will be the one who feels rejected and every time a man feels rejected, he wants that woman to come back. Try it. You will be surprised how it reacts.