BUSTED: 5 Day Game Myths That Keep You From Approaching Women

Myth #1: A Master Of Day game can pick up any girl off the street and bring her home

Having impractical expectations of the end results is your number 1 enemy when you start practicing. day game. Feeling like you’ll never measure up is a huge danger if you’re focusing too much on what the day-to-day “pros” can do… and it will ruin your game at any level. Most of the time with the day game you will only get a number and a date. And if you’re really handy and the logistics are right, you’ll get an instant date. And the fact is that most of the stories you hear about gurus are exaggerated, if not completely fictitious. You definitely won’t know what success is when you have it if you think success means constantly getting more than this. This is not to say that picking up girls off the street for spontaneous casual encounters is inconceivable! In fact, it happens relatively often… but it usually depends as much (if not more) on the woman and her logistics as it does on your competition.

Myth #2: Daytime play is only for kids with advanced skills.

There is a perception that day game is somehow ‘hard’ material and that beginners should be limited to playing in clubs. The day game is not more difficult than the club game: it is simply a different skill. There are factors that you have to consider that you don’t have to worry about in a club, but then again, the club has its own set of problems. For example, in a club you know that she has come with the intention of meeting people and you never have to wonder if it is a “good time” to open up to a woman. However, you will likely run into many other men who are also curious about her…which is often not the case during the day. If you can approach a girl and carry on a conversation, you are already playing for the day. For continued success, all you need now is the knowledge and skills.

Myth #3: What works in the club will work on the street.

I have a friend who kills in the club. This guy has incredible skills and incredible energy, and when we’re away he almost never goes home without a hot girl. His prescription is being absolutely direct. The temperature rises without delay and the girls… who are in any case to flirt with someone… go for it every time. Just a few days ago, a close friend and I were having lunch in the neighborhood when he noticed an adorable little girl sitting alone on a nearby park bench. So he approached her. He told her the exact same stories and performed the exact same routines that have given him success with the girls many times over. And I have the old hehe-ho. But why? He believed that techniques that work on women who are looking to have sex will work on a girl who isn’t. The worst part is that he could have been successful if he had played it differently. Females are always looking for an adventure. He just has to frame it in a different way and lead with a different energy on the day game.

Myth #4: Because the girl is always going somewhere, logistics are always bad.

Most guys think “pua during the day” and visualize a fairly busy street with a lot of people running from one place to another. When everyone is in a hurry, the chances of taking a girl away for a date (or more) seem slim. Once again… part of the problem here has to do with expectations. With a successful day game, very often all you’re doing is getting contact information and possibly setting a future date. More than this, anything can be achieved…however, you should look for situations where a woman is not “heading” somewhere. To illustrate, she may be on a lunch break. That’s 30 minutes right there. Or maybe she’s at work (but be very careful with this one. You want to be respectful of her situation… please don’t try to lock her into a dialogue if she’s obviously busy, or she’ll think you’re creepy). . And chances are she’s right.) You’ll find out how to spot girls who have some free time with a little observation and practice…

Myth #5: Girls are always busy and don’t want to be bothered.

Of course, even if a girl is sitting alone on the bus with a book…she’s reading. If she has an iPod, the woman is listening to music. If she has her laptop with her, she’s probably on Twitter or doing something at work. She will always be doing something to keep herself busy. And that? Imagine for a second that you are texting a friend when a beautiful woman suddenly walks up to you and starts a conversation. She’s interesting to talk to, friendly, and everything in her body language tells you that she likes you. After a few minutes, she offers you her number and asks you to meet up in the near future. The last thing you’re going to do is say, “Sorry, I’m busy.” How would you feel if that situation really happened? Pretty amazing, right? Well, it’s exactly the same for girls. Even if you’re not in a bar, girls love to be approached! You might meet an occasional girl with a bad attitude that will blow your mind. Most of the time, though, if she remembers to maintain a confident and playful energy and doesn’t undermine the interaction with too much presumption, the women she meets will be very happy that she made the effort to get to know them.