How to have sex 3 in one bed – Threesome tips and techniques for men’s fantasies

Oddly enough, the first question most men have about 3-in-a-bed sex (especially if MFF is their fantasy) actually has a simple answer:

Q. How do I get a girl to have a threesome with me?
A.Ask!

Countless e-books and magazine articles have been written on the subject, but 9 times out of 10, it will hint that this is one of your fantasies. From there, it’s a simple matter of progressing to the point where you’ll actually have the threesome in real life.

As all men know, picking up on her clues can sometimes be like learning a different language. The signs that she is interested in a threesome fantasy will usually range from subtle, but clear, to disconcerting. What you are looking for here are answers to things rather than their words. If she responds well to movies with a bisexual element or admits that she’s attracted to actresses in movies, she’s obviously sending you some important clues. Women are often even more subtle than that and she may tell you stories of couples who had threesomes or mention it as a joke to test your reaction. While the ways she will tell you vary widely, she will try to get the message across to you if you listen long enough.

Once she tells you she’s interested, a lot of guys make a mistake by labeling her like “bisexual” or something similar. While some women wear this label proudly, most don’t want the kind of dramatic lifestyle change these labels imply, they simply want to live out a fantasy. Most couples who have a lot of threesomes use girl-girl words or even refer to the third person as a ‘toy’ so they can enjoy the fantasy without any additional emotional baggage.

How to go from ‘interested’ to threesome

The next steps involve smoothly progressing into fantasy. It can be difficult for a woman to find herself in a threesome, as reality is often different from the fantasy she has in her head. Progression can take many forms, such as using erotic movies to give her an idea of ​​what it would be like (make sure the movie is female-friendly, as many are not) or even taking her to a strip club and letting her have some fun. there. As a general rule, most strippers have no problem with female-female lap dancing as long as they are paid adequately.

Tips for a threesome

The last thing to establish are the ‘ground rules’. threesomes don’t just have one guy, there are many. In addition to the standard MMF (an abbreviation for 2 males and one female in bed) and MFF (abbreviated male-female-female) varieties, there are other types including:

* Both partners have sex with the third person
* Only one couple has sex with the third person (The man looks at the two girls together and does not join / The man has sex with each girl in turn). It is worth mentioning that some women will want a threesome, but will not have sex with the other woman.
* He also does not have sex with the third person, for example, the third person masturbates while the couple has sex with each other. This is rare, but it does happen and falls into the category of voyeuristic fantasy.

Also, it is worth taking some time to define the general rules, especially who has sex with whom and what is allowed. Many good fantasies are ruined by not clearly defining what is and is not allowed. This will make a huge difference during the threesome and could make all the difference in your relationship.