I’m single and I love it

We all enjoy the love, excitement, and companionship that comes with being in a romantic relationship. However, sometimes being in a relationship has drawbacks that make us look back and wish we were single. Here I have written important benefits that’s why I love being single.

I can save money.

When I was in a relationship, I really can’t help it, but I always look beautiful. So I go to beauty salons and make my hair soft, shiny, smooth and well cut. Of course, hairdressers are not cheap. I go to the stores to look for comfortable and cute clothes, and even though I can find clothes that are on sale or with red tags, come on, I’m still spending some money. Lastly, I need quality makeup and there are no low prices unless you want a red face from allergies. But when I’m single, I’m not as conscientious about scheduling my time to go out to those stores and salons. I’m not so aware that I wore the same shirt twice in a row. I’m not so aware of whether I’m wearing makeup or not.

I have more time for self-improvement.

I spend my time with my family, work, friends and some time doing things. When I was in a relationship, it was like I had little time for family, work, and friends, no time for the things I liked, and more time for my partner. We go out to eat, play and have fun, but most of the time we talk, talk, talk and talk. But when I’m single, geez, I feel like I haven’t been home for ages. I realized that I missed my family. I was able to reconnect with my friends and most of all, I was able to do things that I love. I was able to read the book that I left sitting on my table, I was able to draw and paint some pictures, I was able to be with my team again and practice our dance show. I realized that being single is a wonderful time to build myself up and pamper myself!

I can do whatever I want, anywhere, anytime.

When I was in a relationship, my actions were limited. I hate to admit that I can’t go out and have fun with my friends and have a good time without telling my boyfriend first. The worst part is that he allows me to go out with my friends as long as he takes me to my friends house and picks me up. I love outdoor adventures like zip lining, cave exploration, and getting out of the city. However, my boyfriend forbids me to do such “dangerous” activities and he tells me that he cares about my safety, except if he was with me. I love and appreciate the concern but, come on; Can I have fun once in a while?

There are other reasons why being single is good. As for those who say singlehood is a lonely state, truth be told, it’s not that lonely at all. You can enjoy being single if you are able to appreciate the benefits you can get from it!