Prostitution generally involves men who pay for sex

There have always been some women who are willing to offer men sex on demand. But they want to get paid. By far the most common form of prostitution involves women providing sexual services to men. The second most common is among homosexual men (4% of the male population). Women pay male escorts for companionship rather than sex. Prostitution is less common among homosexual women (2% of the female population).

Society sends positive messages for girls to be wives and mothers. They are not admired for being sexual women as lovers or prostitutes. Women are embarrassed by references to the so-called pleasure quarter, which turns sex into a transaction and implies that women’s role is to be a sexual commodity for male consumption. In the red light district of any city (often near the train station), women are employed to provide men with sexual pleasure or simply sexual relief. Women often enter prostitution as a last resort and out of desperation. Most women want a loving relationship. Unfortunately, it is not possible to buy the platonic and loving intimacy (based on affection) that women expect when they love someone.

The men who are most likely to use prostitutes are under thirty and less educated than average. Some men pay for sex as easily as they would for a massage. It is likely that many more men would pay for sex were it not for the social taboo. Cheaper hookers don’t feel compelled to pretend they’re turned on. A classier prostitute may be more proactive, but only because she gets paid. Women’s responses to a lover involve conscious behaviors, which depend on motivation, not natural responses to eroticism.

Men fantasize about ‘threesomes’: sex with one man and two women. A man doesn’t want male competition. Men need to recover after orgasm before they can become aroused again. A man feels safe in a harem because he is the only male. In a swinger situation, women may have more partners than a man because they are not aroused and cannot orgasm with a lover.

Some men are looking for an emotional connection. Many men are opposed to paying for sexual relief. The most educated man prefers to think that someone has sex with him because he likes it. Sex can be more interesting when you know something about a lover. Educated men may find a prostitute unsatisfactory because they want a lover who appreciates their lovemaking.

Male prostitutes ejaculate (coinciding with male orgasm) with a client. Prostitutes do not reach orgasm with a lover. A prostitute is someone who hooks or traps clients. Most women would never be prostitutes, even if they were well paid. Prostitution is dangerous work and the risk of assault is high. Men resent prostitutes because they make money off men’s needs.

If women experienced orgasm with a lover, prostitution as we know it would not exist. A woman can serve many men almost indefinitely because she experiences no arousal, orgasm, or recovery period. Nobody can have an orgasm on demand, but an orifice can be offered at any time. At a more basic level, heterosexual activity involves a woman allowing a man to ejaculate into one of her orifices: either her vagina, her mouth, or her anus.

Men generate the demand for prostitution, but it is the women who are ashamed of the activity. Men, as in many sexual contacts, can remain anonymous but women (for their own protection) must be declared and responsible. Prostitution annoys women but men do not disapprove of it. Prostitution is a service that allows men to enjoy sexual liberation with a partner. It is naive to think that prostitution can ever be abolished. Some men (regardless of their relationship status) will always be willing to pay a woman for sex.

Some men want more specific sexual services related to a fetish or kink. Even men can be embarrassed by their responses. Women in the sex industry satisfy these sexual needs. This service saves other less worldly women from having to get involved in the true nature of some men’s carnal needs. Much of the violence men show towards prostitutes reflects their frustration at not getting the sex they need from their partners.

In most countries, prostitution is illegal. The Netherlands and Germany are notable exceptions. Some people believe that legalizing prostitution is tantamount to tolerating the practice of men paying to use women’s bodies for sex. Others support decriminalization, which offers (registered) prostitutes a safer work environment, medical support but in exchange for paying taxes. Prostitutes have been re-labeled as sex workers, but prostitution remains linked to organized crime, violence, kidnapping and slavery. The problem is the brothel owners and pimps who exploit and abuse. Women make money from men by offering services, sex chats or nude pictures, but men make a lot of money. Men know exactly what other men want.

We find that about 69 percent of the total male population ultimately has some experience with prostitutes. Many of these men, however, never have more than one or two experiences, and no more than 15 to 20 percent of them have such relationships more than a few times a year, over a five-year period. In their lifes. This means that there is almost a third (31%) of the population who never have any type of sexual contact with prostitutes. (Alfred Kinsey 1948)