Posted On May 14, 2022
The ungrateful complain about the one thing you haven’t done for them instead of thanking you for the thousand things you’ve done for them. As you get older and wiser, you realize that when people are given something without having to earn it, they become ungrateful and lazy. Without knowing it, we turn them into parasites.
Ungrateful people are always negative. They fail to appreciate the beauty of patience and hard work. They remain restless even if you have given them your best. Who are the martyrs today? No one derives any pleasure from giving to an ungrateful person. When you show appreciation, the object of your attention blooms and blossoms.
A grateful person is always happy. They do not demand more. They appreciate everything you give them or do to them. An ungrateful person suffers in the poverty of endless discontent. It’s like a cancer. A complaining tongue reveals an ungrateful heart because it always forgets what it is not thankful for.
Ingratitude is a kind of weakness. An ungrateful is even worse than a cancer. It devours your soul by blinding your heart and eyes to the beauty and miracles that surround us every day in our lives. Never let ungrateful comments stop you from doing what you feel is right and good. Let God be your judge.
Spoiled people live rotten lives. Sometimes our wants or needs have nothing to do with being ungrateful and everything to do with making a mistake. It is normal for us to be unhappy for a while because of how life’s circumstances treat us, but it is ungodly for us to be ungrateful for these circumstances that make us unhappy.
Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot. It’s sad how quickly people can forget about you until they want something from you. People never remember the million times you helped them, just the one time you didn’t.
When you are always there for people they stop appreciating you because your favors become an expectation. They will not appreciate you for your efforts because they expect it to be normal for you to help them. If they don’t appreciate you, they don’t deserve you. People don’t appreciate the things you do for them until you stop doing them.
Sometimes being kind is not always the best. When you realize that you are constantly treating someone much better than they treat you, it’s time to make a change. You can be the best person, try your best to please everyone, but at the end of the day all your efforts will not be appreciated!
Life is full of ironies. The people who hurt you, hate you, despise you, look for flaws in you now are the ones who may need you later. Don’t give everything to someone who doesn’t give you anything. This is life. Just don’t be bitter about it.