Christian Marriage Advice: How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

Here is some vital Christian marriage advice regarding a topic that all Christian married couples should talk about more: sex.

If your sex life needs to be spiced up, then we have the recipe to make it happen as quickly and effectively as possible. This is not a 6 month plan to improve intimacy, these are things you can do this weekend, or even tonight, and once you plant these seeds, future intimacy will be as amazing as ever.

1. Rip. This involves breaking your usual routine. Throwing a wrench into the machine, which is your regular day-to-day or weekend routine, has tremendous effects on improving your intimate relationships. Surprise your spouse with safe Christian lingerie, flowers, chocolates or sex toys. This immediate “shock” or “jolt” can set the stage for incredible intimacy to happen right away. Honestly, sometimes this is what it takes. An immediate break from the routine to set the stage for incredible sex.

2. Slipping away. This is another way to “break the routine” but even more powerful. You want to get away for a weekend or even one night. This can be as elaborate as a weekend getaway or as simple as getting a hotel room in the next town for the night. And in fact, the second method, getting a hotel room, may be the most effective. What you are doing is getting out of your usual environment. This is the environment in which his sex life has seen a second billing. The environment in which you have become accustomed to the usual cycle of things: routines, housework, cleaning, children, watching television, etc. By walking away, you are isolating yourself and your spouse in an environment where there is nothing to do but enjoy each other’s privacy.

3. Investigating The fastest way to improve your Christian sex life is to investigate new and exciting ways to please your partner. This is a very common problem when it comes to stagnant sex lives. Usually the couple just does the same thing over and over again. The same positions, the same pleasurable techniques, etc. This is especially the case with some Christians who believe that they are only allowed to do certain acts or positions. In reality, there are many safe Christian techniques, acts, and even sex toys that are available to Christian couples. Just adding a new technique or position to your sex life can have huge implications. It basically sets the tone for more fun and enjoyable experimentation.