Send an email to your ex boyfriend: how to get him back

Over the course of your relationship, you probably sent your boyfriend hundreds of emails. But what happens after you two break up? Should you cut these ties altogether, or is there a way to keep in touch through email that can win your ex boyfriend back?

First of all, if you’ve decided to try to fix your breakup, you’re certainly not alone. Thousands of couples get back together every day, mostly because they miss each other. So before you even consider emailing her ex-boyfriend, she understands that spending some time apart first is always a good thing.

Never be the first to send an email

If your first post-breakup contact is emailing your ex-boyfriend, you’re already at a disadvantage. You have sent the message that you are too shy or unwilling to call him, and this marks you as a bit of a coward. Email, while useful, is always something you want to avoid until your ex contacts you first. And even then, only when you have a valid reason.

Don’t Misread Your Ex’s Intentions Over Email

Another big problem with using email to communicate after your boyfriend breaks up with you: there is no reference to his tone of voice. It is very easy to misread or misunderstand what he writes, and vice versa. This could lead to problems or even arguments, and that’s not very conducive to putting yourself back in his arms again.

Also, since you are trying to win your boyfriend back, you will naturally be looking for signs or signals that your ex still loves you. These are easy to spot during a face-to-face conversation or meeting (especially through body language), but during an email or text exchange it becomes harder to determine. Don’t let illusions get the better of you and make you say or do something that scares your ex-boyfriend.

Don’t bombard your ex boyfriend with emails.

Emails are fast, quick and simple. It’s easy to get carried away with too many of them. If your boyfriend dumped you, chances are he’s still pretty uncomfortable with you right now. Initially, he will want to avoid talking to his ex or emailing her to the point where he feels awkward or strange around her.

Even after you’ve had a few conversations, you shouldn’t email your ex boyfriend to the point where it becomes a nuisance. Your ex shouldn’t feel obligated to respond to you, and you shouldn’t feel upset if you go a day or two without hearing from him. In short, don’t get your hopes up, and don’t expect too much too soon. Reversing the breakup of him takes time, and infrequent little email conversations are only a small part of the big picture.

How to know if your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you

Don’t use email to ‘verify’ your ex boyfriend, or to get answers out of him. Understand that even after he breaks up with you, your ex will still have certain emotional attachments and feelings for you. There are ways to play with these emotional ties and bring out her true feelings for you. outside the use of email. Learning these reconnection techniques can help make the difference between losing your boyfriend or dating him again one day.